Saturday, December 18, 2010

When Friendship Turns Into Love

We call a person a friend when we care about that person; we absolutely trust him/her and know that he or she will be around when we are in a precarious position. A good friend knows you well and you tell him/her stuff that you wouldn't dream about telling about even to the love of your life.

Love is one relationship that transcends friendship. We give our mind, heart and soul to nurture love. Love also involves a physical element which is not there in friendship. Love gone sour causes heartbreak and humans take a long time to recover from the blow. However love gives us a reason to live and people who in love are at peace with the world and feel complete.

Most of our trusted friends or best friends are people from the same sex. However in many cases people might have a best friend from the opposite sex. You might think the person of as your buddy and might not think of him or her romantically. However if your love life is not something you want to talk about and you are growing older and you finally feel it's time to settle down and to be with one whom you know, then is she the one for you?

Here are the ways to turn friendship into a relationship:

1)Finding someone understanding, caring and loving is impossible. You know your friend like the back of your palm. You know about his/her past relationships, hobbies, dreams and the works. It is logical that you will have a great relationship ahead because you share the same mental space.

2)Proposing to that person would not be tough, since you know the person well. If you are a man instead of proposing her wildly like going down on a knee or with flowers. You can meet up at your favorite hangout spot and broach her about you guys getting into a relationship. You logically explain to her about why this would work fine for the both of you. A lady thinks a lot before getting into a relationship, because gives her best to build the relationship.

3) The last advice would be a tricky, if you have been in any past relationship and explained the lurid details to your friend, and then there might be some friction because of this affair. You must truthfully explain your exact feelings about your past relationship, and ask him/her to help you out. It would be useless lying because the person knows very well to see through that pretense

If you are romantically inclined towards that person, then go for it and use the above mentioned techniques. If not you might regret it later.